Tuesday, March 23, 2021

VIETNAM>CAMBODIA>THAILAND :14 December 2019 - 6 January 2020


Saturday 14 December

The day dawned bright and sharp as we embarked on this adventure.  Though having no particular expectations for this trip, I did however have an anticipatory sense of excitmement at the prospect of discovering another little corner of our world.  On arrival at Gatwick Airport we were greeted with the uplifting sound of Christmas carols reverberating through the airport – courtesy of a large choir.  A delightful sound of a traditional Christmas and possibly to be the only one for this year.

We took off early afternoon on an Airbus A380-800 - a massive craft with three jet bridges and capacity for 868 passengers. A very comfortable 6½ hour flight found us in Dubai - the busiest international airport.  It seemed we had stepped into another world with its flashy décor mirroring the glam and glitz of Dubai.  Swiftly through security we were soon settled with coffee and cake in Costa while we waited for our connecting flight to Hanoi - a further 5½ hours.  We landed in Hanoi 5.40 am GMT. 



VIETNAM


Sunday 15 December


Travel weary with lack of sleep we were finally reunited with our luggage – always a huge sigh of relief when that baggage is finally spotted on the carousel!  First things first it was off to the nearest ATM.  500,000 seemed a good amount of Vietnam Dong – albeit we were to discover later we’d actually drawn the grand sum of £16.37!  Those 000’s never failed to confuse me!

 

Emerging from the terminal the entire area was smog laden.  The taxi journey to our hotel in Old Town, Hanoi, was a slightly alarming experience as we drove at high speed, weaving crazily around cars and n between hordes of scooters and bikes going every which way all accompanied with incessant tooting from all vehicles.  With no apparent existence of road rules, it seemed there was absolutely no limit as to the size of load that could be transported on two wheels -more than we would fit into our cars, toddlers sandwiched in between mum and dad. These ingenious balancing acts completely defied the laws of gravity!  The entire journey was more akin to  dodgems! Quite unbelievable. 



Cocooned within an aircraft for hours then emerging into as yet undiscovered part of our world I always experience that sharp visual impact of contrasts. Crazy noisy chaotic traffic apart, the ramshackle dwellings and old narrow 3-4 storey apartments were in stark contrast to the prettily painted and decorative detached houses with their traditional balustrades and shuttered windows


Room sorted, luggage dumped, we were soon relaxing over a celebratory G&T in our weary fog of tiredness. Any thought of exploring the local neighbourhood disappearing with every sip! 


At 6 pm sharp we headed off to meet our small group of fellow travellers and guide, Thao, where my initial reaction was we’d landed in a 18-30’s group! We were definitely the grandparents of this lot! Introductions over and a quick review of our itinerary were off to enjoy our first taste of the local cuisine – and delicious it was. A short walking tour of the Old Quarter we were finally heading back to our hotel for very much needed sleep.

Monday 16 December - Halong Bay
No sooner had our heads hit the pillow and it seemed the alarm was waking us at 6.30 - we were on the road by 8 o'c for a 4 hour drive to Halong Bay - stopping off at a ceramics factory.  Now virtually abandoned with just a handful of lasses moulding, decorating and firing smaller items.



Very first impressions of Vietnam: welcoming, frenetic, noisy, dusty, ramshackle. The little lock-up style shops along the roadside with their wares spilling out onto the pavements, groups sitting outside on their little coloured plastic stools passing the time of day.  Many vendors simply selling from their bikes – hence the frequent scene of over loaded 2 wheelers!! 


This was a treat I was really looking forward to - a couple of days sailing amongst the beautiful natural wonder of Halong Bay.  As we arrived, the smog cleared and we were under clear blue skies and enveloped in warm sunshine.  

Boarding our junk boat we found our allocated compact wood panelled cabins before relaxing on deck to breathe in the beauty of all around us with nothing but the gentle rumble of the boat's engine breaking the silence and tranquillity.



We tucked into a tasty lunch followed by cocktails then back on deck to absorb this delightful scenery as we chugged slowly through turquoise waters amongst the 1,600 towering limestone islands and islets that appeared like sleeping giants reaching up to the Heavens from the waters - simply spectacular and a delightfully unique experience in every way


The visit to Thien Cung Cave involved a very long haul up a long and steep flight of steps leading into a sprawling complex structure of chambers of illuminated stalactite and stalagmite formations - a breathtaking example of the beauty of Mother Nature.  
It didn't need much imagination to see all sorts of creatures and magical shapes!

From the lookout platform we were treated to fantastic views across the bay
Our junk, before ........

........  'bullying' it's way in to pick us up!

Then back to the warm sunshine to find out junk.  Not sure who got the top score for effort - our junk pushing it's way to dock or our group working its way through the jostling crowd on the pier! A little further along the Bay we enjoyed a couple of hours on a small stretch of a very crowded sandy beach with a chance to cool off in the rather uninviting muddy looking waters!  With hindsight, one can’t help wondering if that’s where some of our various ailments stemmed from later on! 

This incredible day was brought to a close with cocktails by sunset before our delicious supper on board our cosy vessel


my 'Yom Yom'
Artistic hands at work 

We weren't completely lacking in Christmas spirit aboard our junk



Tuesday 17 December - Hanoi
Following a reasonably comfortable night’s sleep I woke to views across the misty, ethereal waters of the Bay.  Delivered of an early morning cuppa I was up on deck to envelop myself in the serene stillness and calm of this suspended moment in time



After an excellent breakfast we were treated to a culinary demo where one of the crew with a very sharp knife and deft of hand turn a simple carrot and tomato into a work of art!


Finally, with a huge reluctance to leave this idyllic homely bubble I'd been in for 24 hours it was time to disembark and return to Hanoi - via a workshop set up for disabled people working with stone sculpture, picture embroidery, clothing, lacquer painting. Their work was absolutely beautiful, intricate, skilful and it was heartening to see this provision of vocational training and jobs enabling them to support themselves and their families.

A 4 hour road trip brought us back to our hotel in Hanoi where we had the afternoon and evening free.  Our first opportunity to spend a little time exploring the tumultuous and bustling Old Quarter with its tiny narrow congested streets but its compactness allows for easy walking to explore.  Even with the use of a local map we realised we had made a rather long and unnecessary circuitous route back to our hotel!  



We decided on a visit to Hoa Loa prison where thousands of patriotic and revolutionary Vietnamese fighters were held from the 1800s; then later from 1964-1973 the captured American pilots who were shot down in N Vietnam.  

       

Section of the Memorial monument


By evening the festive Cathedral Square was bursting with trillions of colourful lights and an enormous Christmas tree barely visible behind all the festive displays.  Streets heaving with their jumble of shops, street food vendors, restaurants and living quarteres packed into this tiny square kilometre,


Amongst the incessant noise of a crazy volume of cars and motorcyles we soon discovered as a pedestrian wishing to cross the streets, one has to simply join in the fast paced game of dodgems! Even the occasional obliging green light didn't seem to help much!  We later learnt the general guideline for driving is anywhere where there's a space, necessitating in a game of 'dodge' for pedestrians.


The noise and humidity was quite overpowering as we w
andered through the maze of cluttered, crowded pavements, dodging groups of locals sitting on their little plastic stools cooking and eating as well as lines of scooters which entailed walking mainly in the busy streets!  So it's dodgems on street and pavement amongst this seeming chaos!
A new take on fruit and veg selection

Finally the delicious aromas of food tempted us and we found a tiny little restaurant (The Gecko) where I was able to indulge in the highly recommended Hanoian dish: Bun Cha – I was not disappointed, it was absolutely delicious 


Finally having made our way back through the street maze into our hotel we were enveloped once more in the calm oasis of peace and stillness. It was around 10 pm and we were overdue for some some restorative sleep ready for our flight to Hue in the morning



Wednesday 18th December - Hue
Alarm at 5 a.m. woke us to a new day and we were packed up and into our taxi at 6 o’c with a picnic breakfast courtesy of a staff member as we were missing breakfast.  Another even more dramatic hair raising taxi ride to the airport. I learnt the best thing is simply to close one’s eyes and hope!  Hassle-free check in, short flight to Hue and we were soon booked into the Royal Palace hotel before heading off to the Royal Tomb of Emperor Tu Duc.  Designed as a tribute to the fourth Nguyen Emperor – a sprawling 30 acre manor designed to harmonise with the surrounding landscape. 


Lunch today was courtesy of a local couple who opened their home to us.  We were offered a delicious variety of local dishes which included a few tasters of the host’s home made brew! Best not to 
enquire as to what was floating in that flaggon!


Back at our hotel it was a choice between some R&R or a 2 hour rickshaw ride into the neighbouring countryside -  3 of us chose the latter.  A few 'shut your eyes and pray' moments as we were merged into and deftly negotiated through the crazy traffic, feeling rather vulnerable in our open rickshaws.  Soon the noise was left behind and we  melted into the gentle peace and quiet of the country lanes. What a stark contrast to that hectic city!

Rural sights: Temples (every village has a Temple); interacting with local children playing football; local seamstress in her little hut at the entrance to the village; working in the paddy fields:
The village seamstress

Dusk was approaching as we returned to our hotel so a quick turn around and out into the night with Heiki and Adrian in search of some supper which we found in a delightful roof top restaurant with great views down to all the busyness of the streets below. We just needed a decent few hours sleep! 



Thursday 19 December - Hue
Exploring Hue on motorbikes – riding pillion I hasten to add!  So once more, into the fray!!  But with absolute confidence in our riders as we wove our way through the traffic in the 8 o'c 'rush hour'.  Certainly a real fun and unique way to do our morning’s sightseeing.  An absolute blast!  First stop: the Royal Citadel and Emperor’s tomb.

Returning to our bikes we went on to watch a selection of items bring created from bamboo:


The conical Asian rice hats made of leaves (No La) I had always assumed were simply protection against sun and rain but they also serve a very practical purpose – carrying vegetables and fruit, a drinking vessel and rice - marks made at intervals around the inside of the hat indicate different weights of rice - what an inventive shopping basket!  Some even have a bamboo painting or poem under the leaf layers which are only visible when held up against the sun and some are simply painted with beautiful scenes.     There were lamps, fans, lotus flowers – amazing artistry.


Onward to the ancient lantern bridge and riverside market


The ride to the Thien Mu Pagoda fell into the ‘alarming’ category particularly navigating the massive roundabouts and wide intersections, navigating the criss-cross traffic of motorcycles coming and going from and to every direction. Incredible that we wove our way through this mainly 2 wheeler traffic without a scratch! Yet every rider appears to know exactly where to head as they flow around each other through this apparent chaos!  It truly is a land where traffic rules simply do not apply

not sure how this was snapped - not a vehicle in sight!!


A whistle stop tour of the Pagoda and its pretty little courtyard of bonsai trees before heading to the Perfume River for a fun cruise on a Dragon boat followed by lunch at a Monastery.  

Mangosteen
Bonsai courtyard of the Monastery

Off on the bikes once more to try our hands at rolling incense sticks



At the end of our 5 hour motorbike tour we were back at our hotel around 2.30

Time to relax over coffee then take myself off for a massage – ouch!  Not the relaxing easy massage of back home – this was a real muscle workout!  

After re-packing our bags for tomorrow’s early start  we were off out in seach of supper (I’ve yet to fathom why nothing ever goes back the way it was originally packed and requires much pushing shoving and sitting on said holdall to get the zipper to meet!).   Settling outside the Hot Chilli restaurant I noticed with alarm that there was nothing on the menu without chilli. Really?!  Did I check out the name of this restaurant?! To my delight I discovered a delicious meal with very little chilli: starters of spring rolls and filled rice cakes followed by banana flower with vegetables and duck and for Michael, stir fry beef.


We brought this full day to its end with a walk along the water’s edge watching the colour changing Truon Tien bridge.  We stood fascinated while the colours changed as they rolled gently back and forth along the bridge, span by span.  

Shame we're not around for supper tomorrow night!
But happily settled for a 'Rose Garden' cocktail to round off the evening and watch the lights of Hue from the hotel's roof top bar - then some sleep - finally!  .........zzzzzzzzzz

Friday 20th December - Hoi An

Up, dressed, breakfasted and on the road at 8 o’c for our 4 hour bus journey to Hoi An. Temperatures very warm now 25C and humid.  Leaving the crowded, dusty city it was a joy to see verdant fields, lush greenery covering the mountains, their peaks merging into the white cottonwool clouds whilst the furthest mountains disappeared into the mist. I was looking out for the bobbing of the conical hats atop the heads of folks toiling in the paddy fields up to their knees in water as they raked up furrows of mud through the fields. 


Mid morning we stopped at Dam An Cu and rested awhile by the  tranquil waters at the foot of the mountains which gave us a short respite from the noisy, bumpy bus. 



Over the Hải Vân mountain Pass (Ocean Cloud Pass) a strategic military post during the wars. Known as the Street Without Joy during the American war, it is now famous as a great road trip linking Hue and Hoi An. As we wound our way up the pass we were treated to spectacular views way down to Da Nang bay below  

The journey over the Pass brought us to My Khe beach with a feint veil of smog across the bay and mountains beyond - the area totally spoilt in my opinion by its cluster of bland highrise residential and hotel blocks stretching alongside the road. I was rather unsettled to see helmeted motor cyclists wearing scarfs across their mouths and noses, leaving only slits to afford vision, which took on a rather menacing vision!  


Having deposited our luggage at our hotel, we were off on a ‘familiarisation’ walk where I immediately felt at home amongst the old-world charm of Hoi An and more relaxed away from the dynamic cities of Hanoi and Hue.  Exuding the feel of centuries past, Hoi An oozed character with its mix of architecture, temples, attractive French colonial structures, colourful buildings, art galleries and its beautiful historic Japanese Covered Bridge and not least,the absolute plethora of tailors! Numerous characterful little restaurants and cafes spread along the riverside looked invitingly promising. I was going to enjoy this place with nothing to do but explore at our leisure for 2 whole days.

Assembly Rooms

Japanese Covered bridge
This iconic 400 year old bridge with its wooden pagoda roof used to link the Japanese then living in Hoi An to the Chinese quarter across the water 

Streets were bedecked with colourful lanterns, beautiful at night time
 
After tucking into a very welcome relaxed group lunch it was off to the tailors!! One day dress and 2 pairs of shoes ordered I was to return the same afternoon for my fittings.   

Simply explain the style you want and select your material : no good for those who are indecisive!

Back at the hotel with its very welcoming pool it was time to catch up on laundry, showers then off for my first fittings and some supper. 

Evening brings quite another atmosphere when the little streets are hung with their brightly lit lanters and the river becomes awash with dozens of little boats festooned with their colourful lanterns tempting folks to take a sail and float flower lights - which we enjoyed watching from a little roof top restaurant.


Saturday 21 December - Hoi An
Just one week into this trip and so much to we have already absorbed, experienced, tasted yet still so much more ahead of us. Michael was hit poorly today so I spent the day on my own totally comfortable and at ease wandering the cobbled streets of this delightful, captivating little town quite simply letting it fill my senses - this place seems to have touched my heart somewhat

An obligatory visit to the famous Phin Cafe

..Into the heart of it all to enjoy the colourful street markets:

Dragon Fruit

What I woul term a very useful apron!!


Thankfully Michael was better by evening so we returned to the little unpretentious restaurant of the previous evening for a leisurely supper while watching the colourful boats bobbing about below 

Before heading back to our hotel there was just one more thing to do: collect my dress and shoes - plus a rather elegant evening gown I'd spotted and fallen in love with - final fitting of finished garments, paid for and collected in just 24 hours!!

Sunday 22 Dec - Ho Chi Minh City

A 4 a.m. start for our flight to Ho Chi Minh City (formerly Saigon). Snooze on the plane maybe?  

First visit was The War Remnants Museum where we witnessed the disturbing graphic scenes captured on film from the horrors of Vietnam's war. Once again, saddened and pained at these images - such a stark reminder of the atrocities and suffering of war.  It was hard to stay, not to simply turn my back and walk away.  

A quick mental adjustment from the weighty sadness I was left with was required for our visit to the colourful, crowded, incessantly loud bustling Ben Thanh market.  Under cover, hot and humid this was not the most comfortable place to be but it was all the same an absolute feast for the eyes.  It offered very little space to push between the stalls and hordes of locals and foreigners.  Tantalising aromas of food cooking hung in the air along with the delicious smell of spices.  Stalls, barrows, rails – anything to display their goods and there was nothing that you couldn’t buy from edible to clothing, jewellery to the most exquisite china and glassware, sourvenirs – and more.  But this is after all the most famous market in Vietnam with around 3,000 stalls!

Dorian fruit - it has the most off-putting potent smell - I never got close enough to taste it!

Finally emerging from the hive of chaotic activity in the market, our ears still ringing the noisy crowded streets seemed quiet by contrast! It was back to our bus heading for the famous Pho 2000 restaurant for lunch

Rather grand Central Post Office

Notre Dame Cathedral

If the famous Pho 2000 Restaurant was good enough for Bill Clinton, it was certainly good enough for our little group of Intrepid travellers!  It is rated the best place to eat Pho - a rice noodle soup made from pungent beef stock with a variety of other ingredients added to make up a menu choice. Though I would not suggest this place for those planning on a relaxed dining atmosphere – swift service, quick turn around, noisy and tables laid out in a way that immediately transported me back to the school canteen - though only the layout, definitely not the food!  As always, the delicious Vietnamese cuisine didn’t disappoint.  It doesn’t seem to vary wherever you choose to eat – street food, simple restaurant, high class restaurant - all excellent.  

Finally arriving at our hotel to dump our luggage, a few of us girls were off out to find a Nail Bar. Wandering through a maze of streets, navigating the mega-loaded roads of insane traffic with 'obligatory' constant honking and tooting, checking out nail bars we soon realised we had to shift our expectations down a notch or two! These were not the smart, well equipped Nail Bars we find in the UK, but pokey back street rooms located inside buildings totally unrelated to nails or anything akin to beauty and therapy!  And an evident lack of any English spoken, so it was down to pure instinct as to which one to settle on!  So a chance as to the outcome but two of us took the plunge and thankfully nails in tact and painted.  Admittedly a fun experience, it was back to the hotel in need of snatching time to catch my breath before off out for the evening.


For the evening, Michael and I had made a reservation on the Sky Deck of the Bitexco Tower - rising to 262 meters and situated in the heart of the business centre of the city, it's the 124th tallest building in the world. All glass, steel and glam as we entered the massive entrance hall, from where we found ourselves being ushered into a very elegant elevator with a uniformed attendant and whisked up at high speed to the 51st floor. It was such a different world up here - elegant, stylish and it oozed indulgence. Quite a divergence from the style and pace of our trip so far! Sitting up at the wide windows sipping our G&Ts we relaxed into enjoying unparalleled 360º views across Ho Chi Minh city - the meandering ribbon of the Saigon River, car lights twinkling like threads of gems winding their way amongst the glittering metropolis below.  The tower blocks were providing us with a constantly changing colour show. This was most certainly not, however, for those tending towards vertigo!

It's nearly Christmas!


A couple of perfect gin and tonics later our plan to eat in town somewhere seemed to evaporate in this delightful setting. So it was that, feeling like a couple of school kids and overly indulgent, we booked a table for dinner in their world class restaurant – it did not disappoint!!   I felt like royalty

Monday 23rd December - Mekong Delta

Definitely a highlight day – well, another one! A day away from crowded noisy cities, this was such a gentle day by comparison.

 

After the customary early start, two hours later we were boarding our boat to Ben Tre, the ‘coconut’ land of the Mekong.  


customary complimentary snacks on board - Dragon fruit and Longan

Disembarked from our little boat, we were shown the processing of coconuts – its varied uses: coconut water and flesh for drinking and cooking; when older and drier they are used for oil and a variety of food products.  I never knew coconuts had so many uses!  And I have never seen so many - we were literally clambering over mounds of them!


Prepping and tasting:


The speed with which this guy push the coconut onto the sharpest of a spear shaped cutter was alarming!

......... revealing: a monkey face!

Tasty coconut snacks - washed down with whatever this is?!
the making of coconut candy - but watch your teeth!

A Tuk tuk tour around the villages see how the locals make their living from all those coconuts - nothing is wasted

Irrigation system
she sits here all day making brooms

A blissful, silent ‘cruise’ among the stillness of the coconut trees


Lunch was our introduction to the famous elephant ear fish – deep fried complete with fins and scales it is left to the consumer to rake off the flesh and enjoy wrapped in rice paper with cucumber, rice, and whatever else is on the table to accompany this delicacy along with a fish sauce to dip it into before tucking in!

Leaving the coconut farm behind, and heading back to the city, our little taste of life on the Mekong came to an end leaving me with many images etched in my memory

    

Back in the noisy fever pitch of the horns of motorcyles and cars of Ho Chi Minh late afternoon it wasn’t too long before, with our Christmas ‘hats’, we were off in high spirits for supper at the KOTO restaurant – an organisation dedicated to developing the hospitality careers of disadvantaged youths 

'HAPPY CHRISTMAS!'
Couldn't resist a nightcap on the roof terrace of the Skybar before heading back for some sleep!


Tuesday 24th December

Christmas Eve – I felt further removed from ‘Christmas’ than I’ve known - particularly given the itinerary for today -
The Cu Chi Tunnels - a 250 Km long immense network of underground tunnels that stretched from the suburbs of Saigon to the Cambodian border often passing under the American bases. These secret tunnels were used by the Vietcong soldiers as hiding places during combat, communication and supply routes as well as providing shelter and living quarters.  

Crawling through a section of one of these incredibly narrow tunnels, less then 6' high and 10 meters underground, I felt claustrophobic entombed in such a cramped dark space and unable to imagine how anyone could survive any length of time down there. The eerie rather disturbing sense of war and death was still tangible after all these years.

... having crawled through a distance, it was a relief to be out in the fresh air  - and vertical!

We only saw one very tiny section within this vast jungle area but it was enough - torture implements, traps, war machinery ....... it was enough 

We returned to the city for lunch in the Street Food Market - a vast number of stalls offering a diverse selection of food types - literally everything to suit all palates.  The system was find your chosen table, wander around this massive food hall until either your eye catches sight of a dish that appeals or a particular aroma tantalises those taste buds - hand in your table number and miraculously your food finds you!
The famous rolled ice cream
With a FREE AFTERNOON I took the opportunity to do some solitary exploring around the local neighbourhood and discovered this rather beautiful and imposing church - Huyen Sy.  The oldest and one of the four biggest Catholic churches in the city.  Disappointinly I had to satisfy myself with marvelling at the exterior whose doors were firmly shut, depriving me of enjoying the beauty of what I believe is the most stunning interior. I am certain I would have benefitted from the sanctuary it would have offered for a while! 


CAMBODIA

Though Cambodians do not traditionally celebrate Christmas in a religious way - their leading religion is Buddhism -  there were plenty of Chritmas decorations.  Hotels with myriads of fairy lights, market stalls teetering under the weight of Santa hats, tinsel garlands, fun Christmas outfits – you name it, it was there! 


Wednesday 25th December - Phnom Penh
A very bright and early start for our 10 hour road trip to Phnom Penh.  I was feeling a degree of trepidation at the thought of this, the longest of our road trips, which was on a public bus.  It turned out to be the most comfortable road trip so far!
Road safety rules??
There is a rider under there somewhere....... I Spy a leg!

3½ hours later on we were going through the border formalities.

Finally reaching our hotel, luggage was deposited and we were straight off to explore the sights of Phnom Phnom in the little Tuk Tuks. 


First stop the Central Market, an Art Deco landmark of the city with its vast hallways housing numerous stalls selling everything from high-end jewellery, flower stalls as far as the eye could see, every fruit and vegetable available, dry goods, souvenirs, clothes 


and a few edibles that certainly didn't take my fancy!  Spider for one - a local delicacy. A tiny sample of a crispy leg was enough for me - I drew a firm line at trying the squishy body!  It's strange what you'll try when in a foreign country that you wouldn't dream of doing at home - especially spiders if suffering from aracnophobia!  But clearly our Cambodian guide, Shreymon, enjoyed spider!
It got worse later on in this trip but that titbit comes later on ............
give me dumplings any day!

This very long day was rounded off with a walking tour followed by a Group dinner when we finally found our hotel and fell into our beds to grab some sleep before heading out in the morning to be confronted with the horrors of Cambodia’s tragic past.

Independence Monument - slap bang in the centre of a huge roundabout

Wat Phnom

Thursday 26 December

A slight hiccup to our start this morning when it was discovered a couple from our travel party were locked inside their room – after much chuntering and deliberation the carpenters literally hacked with chisels until the entire lock mechanism fell out!! Clearly not the most professional approach but at least our couple found their freedom!


Nothing could have prepared me for what I learnt and saw this day and it is impossible to express in words the depths of horror I felt.  The following is my best attempt:

The Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum - originally a High School - served as one of the prisons and torture centres during the Pol Pot regime from 1975 - 1979 . The entire compound made secure with double walls and dense barbed wire to ensure escape was completely impossible. Inside narrow individual cells were formed out of the original classrooms. Several thousand victims (est 20,000) from every walk and station in life were imprisoned here, tortured and exterminated, men, women, babies and children.

As we stood listening to our guide relating the barbaric inhumanity that took place here at the hands of the Khmer Rouge, I felt sick to my stomach with an all-consuming sense of horror and sadness for the thousands of Cambodians who endured such brutality before suffering their terrible tortuous deaths – all but 7 of them survived.  Walking through the cells, letting my eyes gaze upon the gallery of photographs of so many victims it was impossible to comprehend such barbarous atrocities. I grappled with this reality - how could any human being deal out such obscene and savage atrocities to another? 

The gallows

There are now two men still alive of the 7 who survived:  83 year old Chum Mey and 74 year old Bou Meng who return here each day reliving their nightmares to remind visitors of what happened here in this place of horrors.* 


We met these gentle humble men who have written accounts of their horrors and the miracles of their survival in their respective books. Their strength of character and resolve, hidden under their unassuming and gentle appearances, is utterly admirable and possibly exactly this that allowed their survival.  I felt nothing but humility, compassion and admiration, even love, for Chum Mey as I held his hand and looked into that gentle, unassuming face.  


Chum Mey
No. 22 - Chum Mey's prison cell

*  “I survived, but I can’t say I was lucky. My wife and children are dead and the torture I endured was horrible. At that time, it would have been better to die than to survive. But I did survive, and I believe it is my duty to tell my story.”


Tuol Sleng was followed by an equally harrowing visit to the Choeung Ek Memorial which marks the site of one of the Killing Fields - the mass graves of the thousands of victims from the Khmer Rouge.  With more than 300 killing fields scattered throughout Cambodia, Choeung Ek is the most infamous.

We walked in disbelief and with an immense sense of sorrow on boardwalks that have been erected over this expanse of mass graves; innocent people brutally murdered and buried so shallowly that the rains have eroded the ground during the last 40 years exposing bones and rotting pieces of clothing. Every breath was restricted as we moved slowly over these grounds; I could feel it in my nostrils.


The glass sided Stupa holding 5,000 human skulls excavated from this site, a grisly reminder of the genocide that took place here

An estimated quarter of Cambodia's entire population died during those 4 years of Khmer Rouge rule

A most disturbing place to visit - eerie, distressing, desperately sad. Even though our ears heard of the atrocities and eyes bore witness to the evidence, it was incomprehensible.  In quiet contemplation we boarded our bus and headed back to the lively, crazy busy city for lunch – frankly, it felt disrespectful and irreverent in that moment to those thousands who had suffered. 


But thrust back into that hot, noisy crowded restaurant I was found myself caught up in the lighter mood of those around me – but those memories, images and sensations were seared so deep within that, to this day, they have not dimmed. 


Our free afternoon offered us the opportunity to explore the magnificent Royal Palace and Silver Pagoda.


Quick freshen up at our hotel, we were off for our final treat of the day - an evening cruise on a small boat just right for our private party – cocktails by sunset then the party began!  It could not have been more of a contrast to the start of the day. Michael and I rounded off the night on the Sky Bar Terrace. 

'cheers' 
'លើកទឹកចិត្ត'  (leuktukchet)
It tasted better than it looks~!!

Friday 27 December - Battambang
On the road for 8 o’c for our 6 hour (293 Km) road trip on private bus to Battambang. Having dreaded the public bus journey earlier to Phnom Pehn which was the most comfortable, this was the one that turned out to be by far the most uncomfortable. It was for the most part on partially constructed roads so no chance of a nap there then!  We spent virtually the entire journey bumping and bobbing around in our seats.

Lorries were no-where to be seen under their loads that defied all laws of gravity, a motorcyclist had his bike surrounded by chickens tied on both sides, we saw a chap
perched atop a highloaded lorry – just an ordinary day on an ordinary Cambodian road!

En route, our ‘comfort’ stop included a visit to another training school -  Scuplture - where we watched guys in the most ramshackle of workshops, with what appeared to very basic tools, producing beautifully sculpted elephants from crude blocks of silver – along with a wonderful array of other objects including jewellery. Really beautiful fine work.

Back onto the bumpy roads, we headed to Kampong Luong and the floating village on Lake Tonle Sap where we spent a hour sailing between floating homes, boats, shops, repair stations plus little one-man/woman mobile shopboats paddling their way up and down, selling their wares. Their main livelihood is fishing.  To my conditioned mind, it was all very far from western standards of cleanliness and a healthy environment but these folks have lived like this for generations. They have a school and apparently a hospital. Visitors can even enjoy a home stay here - one leap too far for me I feel! It appears all waste simply goes overboard into the murky water and yet we watched a little laddie swimming around his house boat while mum scooped up this water to wash her toddler held suspended over the edge the boat! 

Meal in the making
'Suostei' (hello)
sorting the day's catches

Battambang is rather a charming town with a mix of French colonial and Khmer architecture. Though a large town it felt somehow more intimate by comparison with Phnom Pehn. Though our hotel, The Classy, was very cosy and comfortable it had the most imposing mahogany entrance with all walls and ceiling covered in intricately carved dark wooden panels, huge coffee tables, carved wooden seats – and all surrounded by absolutely thousands of fairy lights!  It was like stepping into a grotto!  Then, before we knew it, we were being whisked away to enjoy a BBQ, Cambodian style,  hosted by a local family in their back yard.

The large table laden with side dishes to accompany the meats which we were left to cook on the mini gas BBQs on the table - novel - and fun!


Saturday 28 December - Siem Reap
An 20k bike ride (with the option of taking a Tuk Tuk - no hestitation on my part there then!) pedalling through the quiet countryside of Battambang, stopping in neighbouring villages for an insight into the cottage industries of rural life. We bumped along narrow roads and dusty tracks past simple shacks, through modest little markets to our first stop where a family of 3 were making rice paper - used for those delicious spring rolls.  This aged mother, along with her son and daughter-in-law, worked 12 hours a day 7 days a week on this simple yet monotonous task as their only income. 

School work for the granddaughter
Drying in the sun for a couple of hours

What you can do with bananas!  Sitting on an old rickety platform, with incredible deft of hand, this lady sliced bananas with amazing accuracy, laying each slice until the bamboo board was covered in paper thin slices before being laid out in the sun to dry. Those dried banana products we buy in the UK I feel sure aren't made by hand this way!

Drying in the sun ......

..... then sections are rolled

tasty snacks on offer
I can't get over the warm, friendly, and hospitable welcome we meet everywhere we go - city or countryside, makes no difference


Back to the saddles and Tuk Tuks we were off to a rice wine distillery.  The aroma of yeast greeting us as we stepped in the hot and humid atmosphere of the distillery. We were shown the entire process from rice to wine which needless to say involved the obligatory tasting from the mild to the strongest of rice wines – including the snake infused version – it would be so bad mannered to decline!

Our final stop was the process of making sticky rice cakes.  Hollowed out bamboo stalks are filled with sweet rice along with coconut cream, black beans, salt and sugar then baked over charcoal. With a machete, the outer layer is then expertly trimmed away leaving the softer inner layer which you peel away exposing the most delicious sweet, gooey and absolute delicious snack

Returning from a most enjoyable and interesting tour of the local cottage industries it was on to the next fun part of this rather extraordinary day – a ride on the Bamboo Train

This was absolutely NOT what I expected!  Having ridden the Sugar Cane train in Cuba, I was expecting some form of carriage – albeit basic.  These were nothing more than bamboo flatbeds set upon wheels!  So after a rather clumsy clamber aboard a very wobbly platform, the 4 of us seated ourselves with a rather apprehensive sense of what lie ahead as we peered down the single track underneath us and the track disappearing out into the distance in front of us!  


As we rattled along the track at high speed,  I soon relaxed into the sheer exhilaration and fun of this ride. The scenery flashed past as we whizzed through the Cambodian countryside and we found it quite impossible to exchange any words between us as the wind rushed past swallowing our words with it.  I was unsure of the actual speed but these trains apparently reach around 30 Kms/hour – though it felt much faster sitting on an open platform with nothing to grab on to!

In a world of her own .......

Single track of course presents a minor problem when there's another 'train' advancing from the opposite direction.  We stayed put while watching the other train being lifted off the track to make way for us before replacing it and continuing their journey! It’s apparently the lightest load that has to make way – says much for us 4!!

Well, that was fun! Now for the next leg of our adventures – travelling to Siem Reap – our final destination in Cambodia - and the very purpose for Michael and I of this entire trip – Angkor Wat.  There’s certainly no time wasted on this jam packed trip we're on!

 

We stopped at a roadside stall selling fried ‘delicacies’ - snake, birds, rats - and were invited to try. So as the saying goes “When in Rome do as the Romans do”.  Guess there's no reason to think this doesn’t apply in Cambodia too!  It was simpler to block one’s mind to thoughts of what it was and simply pop a piece into the mouth, chew and swallow – not at all bad in all honesty.  Though I hasten to add I wouldn’t choose rat if it were to appear on a menu!

give me Rambutan any time!

Finally arriving in Siem Reap and having enjoyed our group supper, we explored the noisy, colourful, busy nightlight of Pub Street in Siem Reap – a powerful contrast to the peaceful countryside of earlier that day.


Sunday 29 December - Angkor Was

I guess this needs no introduction - the largest temple complex in the world - one of the Seven Wonders of the World and a UNESCO World Heritage Centre. Without doubt the main highlight of the entire trip for everyone in our group.  The ‘one’ we’d all been waiting for. My first glimpse was of one of the imposing colossal stone towers rising up through the trees – a sight forever etched into my memory – its beauty, mightiness, splendour – the centuries it has stood there. What a privilege to see such a marvel


It was a long haul up there under the hot sunshine.....

but we were rewarded with views over this massive complex, of which we saw such a tiny part


Much of Ta Prohm is now piles of crumbling stone lying where it fell; the jungle has taken ownership as roots and undergrowth cover and surround most of what remains

Always knew I could be in two places at once!
This looked far more inviting than lunch in this heat!

Angkor Thom - the last temple of the day:

nose to nose
... some fun photography
She's done it again!

It had been a very long day in high temperatures, but I just had to add one more final experience to this trip – I couldn’t resist an evening at Cambodia’s Phare Circus, along with a few of our fellow travellers. Crammed in on narrow wooden benches packed into a small arena it was very hot and noisy but what a spectacle!  The performers, through their expertly choreographed dance, juggling, acrobatics and sheer athleticism tell of moving personal stories of hardship and abuse in Cambodian lives and society.  The sheer energy and dexterity along with remarkable talent was absolutely thrilling to watch.  Phare Circus began back in 1994 with a handful of young men from a refugee camp following the Khmer Rouge regime and this 'school' has now grown to more than 1200 pupils offering the opportunity of improving their skills enabling them to earn a salary.


Monday 30th December

This was the penultimate day of our trip so we were free to do as we wished - tomorrow we would be travelling to Bangkok from where we would all take our flights home.  This presented the opportunity to add an extension to spend time in Bangkok if anyone wished before flying home - an opportunity of which we'd planned to take advantage.  We had planned on spending a day or two in Bangkok and had booked a 2 night stay at the Wildlife Friends Foundation Trust outside Bangkok.


Both pretty exhausted by this point and health-wise neither of us at our best, Michael certainly hadn't recovered to anywhere near good health, so sensibly we took the day easy in readiness for that road trip.  


THAILAND


Tuesday 31 December - Drama at the Cambodian/Thailand border 
6 a.m. all aboard our minibus for a 10 hour trip as we headed for the Cambodia/Thailand border and onward to Bangkok - blissfully ignorant of what lie ahead!

Around 3 hours drive to Poipet at the Cambodian border, passports and visas checked in a scruffy little room with just one guy behind a glass panel. No queue. Then a long walk in the heat and humidity, through an area buzzing with people into a large hall where we joined a huge queue snaking its way at snail’s pace through the formalities for admission into Thailand.  

We'd not long joined the queue when, without warning, Michael simply crumpled to the floor.  The shout of “is there a doctor” soon brought a medic to the scene. When he finally came round he was confused and dazed. Shreymom (our Cambodian guide still with us at this point) didn't hesitate - it was off to hospital.  She fast tracked Michael and I through the check point and into Thailand - leaving behind our very concerned and anxious travel companions. Waiting on a dusty corner by the roadside on a couple of old plastic chairs, Shreymom seemed to think it was a good idea to keep Michael cool so set about tipping bottles of cold water over him so that by the time our minibus arrived to take us to the local hospital it was one very wet and soggy passenger who clambered aboard.  A Thai guide had joined us for the short ride to the local government hospital allowing Shreymon to return to the remainder of our Group. I shall never know how we’d have managed without all the quick action and support we received along with translation assistance. This local government run hospital was a real an eye opener and I sincerely hoped Michael wouldn't become an inpatient there.  However, I couldn't fault the prompt and efficient medical attention he received. Our Thai guide remained with us as did the driver of the minibus who never left Michael’s side. The concern he showed one would have thought it was his own relative. It was 3 hours later a rather wobbly and weak Michael was discharged, having been on an IV saline drip and anti-emetic. 

It was over a 3  hour drive to our hotel where we learnt the remainder of our group were still queueing at the Thai border!  They then faced their most uncomfortable journey to our hotel squashed into a vehicle booked to take only half the group! But we'd had the use of the other minibus !

Our 3 week tour officially ended that evening so needless to say we missed the group farewell/New Year's Eve dinner and fireworks but our sole aim was for M to rest up so we could go onward as planned - which at this point now hung in the balance – would Michael be well enough or would we have to re-schedule our flight and come straight home?


2021     
Wednesday 1st January - Bangkok
With this day to rest up before onward travel in the morning, Michael decided we'd stick to our plans.  So I found myself doing some solo exploring of our little corner of Bangkok
across the bridge from our hotel
spoilt for choice
Phra Sumen Fort, Santichaiprakarn Park⁩
explosion of orchids
section of a wall sculpture
Sunset over the rooftop pool

Thursday 2nd January - Wildlife Friends Foundation Trust
Though far from well, Michael was determined we continue with our trip.   Our driver collected us from our hotel at 7.30 for the 2 hour drive to the WFFT sanctuary where we were to spend our 2 nights.

What a welcome we found there.  We had no idea what standard of accommodation we would find so were delighted to find ourselves in a very comfortable lodge – albeit with an outside shower!  Our lodge was on stilts right beside the route where a family of 3 elephants would regularly amble along looking for some tasty titbits (rather humungous 'titbits'!) The staff had kindly provided us with baskets full – huge bunches of bananas, big chunks of water melon and pineapple so we could feed them as their trunks appeared over the rail of our verandah  – they clearly knew where the food was!  I later discovered their names: NomFon, Duenpen, Sripuek. not that I had a clue which was which!

definitely some seniority order here as this one had to wait his turn
Another visitor to our lodge was this rather persistent and inquisitive hornbill – who seemed to take a fancy to my sequinned top – and also enjoyed sharing our shower - a 
rather worrying sight at first having him watching me from above the shower - I felt rather vunerable - but I soon got used to my inquisitive shower companion! 


After a delicious lunch we had a guided tour of much of the 67 hectares to see the wide variety of around 500 wild animals cared for there - birds, primates, Asian elephants, bears, felines, reptiles - all who have found sanctuary in this place – and to learn a little about the WFFT and its work.  Since 2001 they’ve been campaigning and fighting against practices of animal abuse, exploitation for profit and human gratification and illegal trading.  It was a shocking eye opener to learn how severely maltreated and abused these animals have been.  Other than a few that can eventually be returned home, this Sanctuary provides a place where they can live out the rest of their lives cared for in a place as close as possible their natural environments. And although fenced to keep the various species separate, their compounds were sufficiently large to afford them plenty of space


The indisputable highlight for me was our close proximity to those wonderful lumbering prehistoric looking creatures - the elephants.  The main reason we chose to visit this particular sanctuary. I had no idea the truth I'd learn of how painfully abused baby elephants can be at the hands of owners wishing to train them into some sort of money making endeavours, the horrific abuse they endure in order for their spirits to be broken and thus enable them to be ridden by tourists.  I felt so sad for the lives they'd endured alongside deep gratitude for their rescue by the WFFT and all the work they do.


The afternoon tour was as much as Michael could cope with so it was solo supper for me – but not before I’d sat on the terrace outside the dining area, G&T in hand,  watching the sun disappear


Friday 3 January

Michael finally rallied and enjoyed his first proper meal in a while - a delicious fried breakfast on the dining terrace surrounded by the stunning landscapes, chuckling at the little elephant by the terrace pulling at a young tree, so close I could have reached out to touch him, another indulging in a dust bath which he/she was clearly enjoying.  

'Trunk to trunk'

We watched the monkeys shriek and yell as they swung through the nearby treetops ‘calling’ for their breakfasts!  We both felt a calm and peace descend following what had been a very hectic three weeks!  This was bliss - an absolute delight simply to chill, cool off in the little swimming pool whilst watching the elephants. There was nothing to do but immerse ourselves in this calm oasis, enjoy and relax.

There was still plenty more to see and more residents to meet in the afternoon, the highlight being one to one with the elephants and giving them a hose down - not sure who ended up the wettest!!
Tomar was bribed with a bucket of fruit - I guess so he wasn't tempted to swoosh me with a trunk full of water!!
"thanks Tomar. It's been a privilege"

We would be really sorry to leave here in the morning – it’s certainly been the time we needed to recharge and give us the best chance of keeping going until we reach home a few days from now.


So I'll  close this unique chapter of our trip with a selection of elephant snaps:











Saturday 4th January
It was with real heavy hearts that we packed up and closed the door of  our lodge, a final farewell to our family of 3 elephants who had woken us early by bashing up against the tree outside demanding their fruited breakfasts - and to our other lodge visitor waiting to see us off

After a leisurely breakfast on the terrace, we finally said our farewells to what had been one of the most unique and immeasurably wonderful experiences and were returned to our hotel in Bangkok

Determined to make the absolute most of this last day we decided to push on and take a river cruise to visit the Buddhist temple complex of Wat Pho

The Reclining Buddha.  Standing at the head or feet of this enormous 46’ long golden figure is simply breathtaking.   The 5 metre long feet are decorated exquisitely with 108 mother-of-pearl illustrations, symbols and actions that led Buddha to perfection. Photos do it no justice whatsoever.  


Wat Arun

Back on the river gave us the best vantage point to observe the contrast between the highly ornate and bejewelled temples and the stark modern high-rises reaching up to the Heavens

This really was the very final leg in what was most definitely the fastest paced, fully packed, comprehensive, fun and challenging trip I've ever experienced.    No-one can say we haven't made absolutely and unequivocally the most of every moment exploring this part of our world. But it's time to say goodbye to our foreign surroundings  ..........

                
                            .....................  to return home for a VERY long rest with time to reflect on the incredible sights, adventures, new places and faces and keep all those memories safe always in my heart











































































































































































































































































































































































































































Rural sights: Temples (every village has a Temple); village paddy field; interacting with local children playing football; local seamstress in her little hut at the entrance to the village: